Frequently Asked Questions

So, who are you?

I’m Ryan Yates, a multi-hyphenate writer and editor with roots in the queer media, sexual wellness, and B2B worlds. My pronouns are they/them.


You do corporate and tech copyediting, but also content strategy, but also sex content? How does that work?

I also write fiction.


Someone on my team sent me your website and you seem really skilled but you keep saying the word “sex” and I feel uncomfortable about that.

When we have such a sex-negative culture, it makes sense that you feel some discomfort seeing the word “sex” in a professional context. Also, the sex toy market is estimated to reach $54.6 billion by 2026. My guess is that even if you feel uncomfortable around sex, you might feel comfortable around money. Lucky for me, I’m comfortable around both.


I need to talk about gender and sex, and I’m drawing on materials that conflate the two (but only some of the time). How should I approach this?

Great question! Please get in touch for my availability and rates.

You’ve done a lot of sex toy product writing. Do you know what sex toy I should buy?

I sure do. If you’re looking for something more specific, please get in touch to learn about my sex toy consulting services.